M3 System Making Up made Easy – An Unbiased Review

Posted on February 25, 2011 by

Hi there,

This is my uncensored, unbiased review of the M3 System Making Up Made Easy. Please note that this is a review. To go to the actual M3 System Making Up Made Easy website click here.

I wrote this review because I know that a lot of you out there are looking for EXPERT advice that will help you get your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back, and that good quality and GENUINE products about mending broken relationships are rare.   What you really don’t need right now is advice that makes things worse.  I’ve experienced two difficult break-ups myself and wish I’d had unbiased guidance as to what would have helped get my ex back at the time.  So here’s my honest opinion, including good and not so good points about the M3 System.

What exactly is Michael Griswold’s M3 System Making Up Made Easy?

Click here to read more about Michael Griswold’s M3 System Making Up Made Easy on his official website

It is a clearly laid out program that takes you in easy steps through how to get your ex back and attracted to you again. It usefully comes in multiple formats that are really accessible – in the written, visual and auditory styles – E book, videos together with transcripts to follow or read separately, PDF files and audio MP3s to listen to while on the move or just away from the computer.

Michael Griswold’s vast experience in helping countless couples through relationship problems is clear in the quality of the advice given.  He develops 3 themes to work through – Mindset, Method and Moving Forward.

Put simply, the MINDSET parts are about confidence-building; getting control back and changing your communication and body language with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend.  You will be hurt and possibly angry or distraught after a break up with your loved one .  The Mindset part really helps you to ‘fix’ yourself.  It helps you heal and find yourself again so you are ready for healing the relationship.

The METHOD section looks at the balance of power; avoiding typical break up stumbling blocks and becoming attractive again to your ex. It helps you to set your practical goals towards getting your ex back.  It also has very clear behavioural actions of what to do and more importantly what not to do!

MOVING FORWARD takes you step by step through the actual communications with your ex; the reunion date and what next.  That really just skims the surface of what makes up the M3 System as it is packed with advice to get your ex back.

The three sections of M3 System:  Mindset, Method and Moving Forward  represents a holistic approach to getting your ex back. Helping you to manage your own thoughts and behaviour so you can present the most effective behaviour, not only for yourself but,  for you getting your partner to notice and desire you again.

Click here to read more about Michael Griswold’s M3 System Making Up Made Easy on his official website

One thing Making Up Made Easy doesn’t do is try to get you to change your ex’s mind.  I’ve tried that one myself and it doesn’t work!  The M3 System approach is about your confidence and behaviour, and thus your ability to change your ex’s mood through YOUR changed behaviour.  Your ex starts to change their view of you and recognises once again who they originally fell in love with.  It’s an easy process and you are guided throughout (especially using the videos).

The section on ‘How to deal with seeing my ex with someone else’ is a great example of how Michael Griswold doesn’t avoid the difficult ‘but what if…?’ stumbling blocks. He teaches you a positive attitude of mind to deal with bumping into your ex with their new partner (even if you’re freaking out inside!) resulting in a real change in how your ex sees you.

These are some of his key tips from the ‘How to deal with seeing my ex with someone else’ section

  • Don’t freak out – no trying to persuade them that you should be the one with them.
  • Do go up to them when you see them out together and say hello politely.  Introduce yourself to the new partner, say you must dash and then go.
  • Don’t call up your ex and discuss their new relationship with them.  If they tell you, then tell them you are glad they are doing okay and change the subject.

Few people actually manage to behave like this and don’t worry – you can express all those emotions you had to suppress later, when you’ve switched the phone off or gone around the corner.  But for that moment, show your ex that you are calm and in control of yourself (making you instantly more interesting and attractive) now you are on your own.  I know this can be really difficult to do but he really stresses the importance of being able to control yourself in these situations so you don’t damage the overall goal to win the love back from your ex.

Doubts about the product

You won’t get any guarantee that Making Up Made Easy will absolutely get your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend back.  The promise Michael Griswold does make, however, is that you will be in a happier and more confident situation at the end of the program, making getting back together much more likely.

I was surprised to come across the meditation and the visualising confidence building MP3’s.  I actually thought they were useful but I think for some people they might be a bit of a turn off as they may think it is a bit far removed from getting their ex back.  Possibly a little self-indulgent. It will take a leap of faith to follow them through, but it is worth giving them a chance.

Also, don’t buy this product if you believe your ex was completely to blame for the break-up. The focus is on you (as you are the only one you ultimately have control over) and the M3 System Making Up Made Easy makes you examine your own behaviour to become that confident and interesting person that your ex fell for in the first place.

So what’s my verdict?

This product will work well for you if you are committed to the process.  I highly recommend it for two main reasons.  First, it will give you the effective tools and strategies to have the best possible chance to get your ex back.  And secondly, you will personally grow and develop as a result of the system.  Whatever the outcome you will be in a much better place than where you started.

Click here to read more about Michael Griswold’s M3 System Making Up Made Easy on his official website

Hope my web page has helped you.

Melanie

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What To Do When Your Ex Is Angry And Upset

Posted on February 24, 2011 by

(Please note: This is my shortened version of part of the Mindset section of Making Up Made Easy.  If you want it in full you may prefer to go to Michael Griswold’s own website at M3 System Making Up Made Easy but for now, this is just a flavour of his methods.)

I like analogies.  I think they are a really good learning tool.  If I can’t get my head around something then thinking of the equivalent in a different setting can really help.  Michael Griswold is excellent at explaining what he needs you to understand by using an analogy.

His analogy for the best way to persuade your ex to see things your way is comparing their emotional outbursts (and I’m talking all the anger and upset they may be firing at you) to a toddler having a tantrum.  Just because we’re grown ups, we still have tantrums – they just look different and right now, your ex may well be sending some your way.

How do parents stop a toddler having a tantrum?  Persuading them?  Giving them lots of attention? No – wrong answer.  The best way to stop that out-pouring of emotion is to ignore them.  They will run out of steam, stop and think.  And that’s what we want them to do.

So how does this relate to getting your ex back? Let them express all their rage and frustration without interrupting them with promises to change and begging to have another chance. Just like the tantrum throwing toddler, they will eventually stop and wonder why you aren’t responding how they are expecting you to.  And getting your ex to wonder about what’s going on with you, is a first step in the right direction to win back the love.

This is called detachment.  You don’t actually ignore (unless you in the 3 week cooling off period that Making Up Made Easy will teach you about).  You detach, which means that you stop counting how many texts they sent/responded to and stop going over every minutiae of every communication you have had with your ex.  Stop thinking that every contact with your ex matters.

Making Up Made Easy focuses on perspective and patience as tools to allow your ex to express their extreme emotions and then realise that they want to know what’s going on with you.

The golden rule is that if you want something different to happen, you will have to do it differently.  What happens after you split up with your girlfriend or boyfriend is the most important influence on whether or not you will get your ex back and you are the one in control of how you will react next.

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Can Couples Get Back Together?

Posted on February 21, 2011 by

I think one of the most damaging parts of breaking up is the massive LOSS of confidence you can experience.  In the M3 System Making Up Made Easy I really like how Michael Griswold takes you step-by-step through how to regain your confidence.  If you are going to get back together then you will need to find again that confident and independent person that your ex fell for.  When you met, you were probably happy, confident and a pleasure to be with, not the devastated and angry person you may well be feeling like now.  The M3 System Making Up Made Easy (quite rightly I believe) recognises that if you are going to get back your love, you will have to start with yourself and your confidence.

The steps to win back the love you had are easy to follow and require you to do less, not more.  This is part of the joy of Michael Griswold’s system.  Even if you are feeling hopeless and at your lowest ebb, the M3 System will guide you so that you give a more confident message to your ex.  How to get your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back is really a case of ‘behaving your way to success’ – that is, if you behave confidently for long enough, you will begin to genuinely feel confident – it’s a well-known and successful method. And don’t worry, the M3 System will guide you through that ‘behaving confidently’ bit to the point where the feelings become genuine and not an act!  It’s a simple, but clever system to get your girlfriend or boyfriend back.

At the same time, if you follow Michael Griswold’s advice on developing confidence generally, you’ll feel much better than you probably do now – and feeling much better and more confident will make you much more attractive in the eyes of your ex girlfriend or boyfriend and loads more likely to make your ex love you again.  This will become a cycle of good for you, where you become interesting again to your ex because you are showing confidence.  Their attention in return will make you feel confident.  And then you will remind them of someone – oh yes – the one they fell in love with in the first place, just a little older and wiser!

Can couples get back together? I’ve looked at lots of products about getting back together after a break up and I think that this one is the best out there and that following the M3 System Making Up Made Easy will give you a far better chance.  Should you get back together? Obviously, in the end, you’ll have to decide that one.  A happy outcome of following the  Making Up Made Easy is that you will end up a more confident person whatever happens.

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From Shock And Grief To Empowerment And Confidence

Posted on February 21, 2011 by

I wanted to write about the M3 System Making Up Made Easy because I was really impressed when I read Michael Griswold’s Book ‘Making Up Made Easy’ and watched the helpful M3 System videos.

In the first exciting moments of a new relationship, we are in a fantastic cycle of PLEASURE. Everything seems to be enhanced and even the dullest activities take on a sparkling new shine. When you are going through that wonderful intimacy, it can seem like the rest of the world is irrelevant as you forge a new landscape as a couple. It is like you have won the lottery and nothing will seem the same again.

Thoughts about loss and endings are banished and seem ridiculous and yet the nicks and dents in a relationship can begin to creep in very gradually – so gradually that when you look back, you can barely identify when it all went wrong. There is no particular time when this might happen – 3 months, 3 years, 30 years later. The change is incremental though the end may feel sudden, especially if one of you has an affair. It doesn’t seem possible that it could happen to you. This happens to other people – not you.

After the initial SHOCK, you can become taken over by the desire to get your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back. You will probably feel angry and frustrated, despairing and just monumentally sad. You might go down the blame route or even head towards revenge. All of these are both natural and potentially destructive.

Michael Griswold’s the M3 System Making Up Made Easy stands out from the crowd of ‘getting your ex back’ products as it is prepared to tackle these raw emotions. From the very beginning of the programme you will start to feel empowered and calmer. The system gives you space to experience the emotions that you need to process, whilst guiding you in not allowing those emotions to compromise your delicate communications with your ex. You are led gently step by step through from shock and grief to empowerment and confidence.

Although it has many positives, it’s not a perfect product and I wanted to share my unbiased thoughts with you to help you make your own decision.

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